I responded

I wrote him a letter. Summing up a lot of unsaid feelings and being clear with my intentions. I know he is going to request phone check ins or letters with info on how Nugget is doing. I guess we will cross that bridge when (and IF) we get there.

I am breathing a lot easier. It is nice to know that the harder part is behind me. Yes, there will be struggles, but overall the public part is done. The rest can be handle semi privately...

I really need my family to back off. I am 26 years old and I don't feel like reporting my every move to them. The lawyer will handle strategy. I will handle making the decisions. I am more than capable. I would like them to show that the have at least a little faith in me.